"Messy"... *ponders other words* Neglectful... forgetting what as once really important on the grounds of believing other things "should be" more important and talking yourself into making it so. Unwilling and therefore unable to stop and reflect, then improve or fix that which has "gone wrong".

...So for simplicity, I've used "messy". *grin* Articulation of the English language and I... don't get along.

Boy do I hope this makes as much sense as I think it does right now.